Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Girls Hardest Time

What's girls hardest time? There is a few but today I'm going to talk about girl's period. This is not just girls talk you guys should know about it and notice how girl feels and why girl's change their mood quickly. Is not that she hates you she is tired and the pain is horrible. A quick tips here before you read cause I know it will be long. Rubbing her tummy is the ultimate tips. Trust me. -Winks- (PS: Don't let them drink too many cold drinks is bad for the menstrual cycle and its bad for your future about "baby")






Let warm up and get to know girls better! :D


Men can't put themselves in the place of a woman and understand what it's like to have a menstrual cycle, but they can try to understand what symptoms they go through. Woman usually get terrible stomach cramps (Lay your head on her stomach ;because of the body heat and pressure the cramps will decrease), which are never fun, and it can be debated they are more terrible than male "pain", and can range from a dull pain that simply annoys, to a stabbing pain that practically paralyses a woman. Women can get mood swings, they can get headaches, restlessness, become extremely tired or sleepy, become sore in their genital regions, and their appetites can dramatically change. Symptoms will vary from woman to woman and some women may not even have symptoms at all! Periods are just generally uncomfortable and the symptoms that go along with it are never any fun. Hopefully this will help give you an idea of what a woman goes through during her menstrual cycle.


Make her feel good about herself. Give her compliments. Say things that will make her feel beautiful and intelligent. This will help boost her confidence and help a little with her mood swings. Comfort her. Have her sit down and give her a massage or give her a warm hug. Even a comforting arm rub will make her feel better. 


Don't act disgusted. Show her that you are not grossed out by the very thought of her menstrual cycle (even if you are). If she tries to talk to you about it, do not make faces or say 'Go talk to one of your girlfriends" (This will give you a hard time or maybe you are in a big trouble). This will just make her feel like you don't care. Another part of this step is to man up if she needs some "errands". Go get her the "girl" stuff she is out of (tampons, etc.) and pick her up some chocolate or her favourite magazine while you are at it! It will make her feel like you really care. Make her feel loved and appreciated. Let her know how happy you are to have her in your life. Tell her she's a great friend, girlfriend, or wife. If she's at work or away from you, call her cellphone, workphone or email them and tell her how beautiful, sweet and all-round awesome she is. It's not even describable how nice it is for a person to do this.


Never be rude and tell her "You'll get over it". Remember to be patient and understanding. If things get too out of hand, take a deep breath, and leave the room to cool off. If you're unsure of whether she's on her period, it may be best not to ask. Regardless, make sure she's comfortable with you and doesn't feel offended. Remember that she is very emotional so dont take her action to heart but know and EXPECT that she will take every thing to heart. Try not to mention it at every opportunity just act normal but still let her know you're there for her.

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